Love

It’s something which you either have it or don’t. It’s occasionally something which one has, but don’t value, and something which someone yearns for, but can’t seems to find it or have lost it.

Now for those who has it, to them it’s like, OK, I have it. So WHAT?

SO WHAT??!! OMG. It’s so many things to it. For example, when one is in love, every new day brings a new meaning. Everyone you greet knows that your greeting was genuine and it SHOWS. Everyone you smiled at automatically smile back and look at you at a different friendly light. You look forward to a new day. You embrace each moment of it. When work is done, you long to go home straight. And why? Because you are in love silly. HE is there at home. You want to see him as soon as you can.

You want to say ‘HONEEEE . . . I am home!!’

Ah . . the joys of being in love. By the way, those were real life experiences of the author . . . . ME!!

Need more examples … take a look at this picture of HAPPINESS!! . . . nope, that is not my lover then. I love and still does, RICE!! ;-)

By the way, this is a old picture, taken in 2000 and pardon the hair, it was not meant to be a center parting, somehow it ended as that. Hmmm. Don’t try thinking that you can recognize me on the streets!! You won’t. You can’t. I should know better, I look nothing like this anymore. Age and gravity has taken it’s toll.

That said, a super close friend/ex colleague, confidante and loyal shoulder supporter, JC, recently broke up. Although we had a brief chat over the phone, I can feel and understood his pain. I ve been down that road before. It felt like your world is crumbling down. You dread waking up in the morning, you drag yourself thru the day. You say A-LE-LU-YAH when the day is over. In fact, your sudden sadness shows and hiding it is such a HUGE task. I remembered just sitting in front of my work pc, my vision suddenly becomes cloudy and tears starts to flow. And for the not so strong ones with the heart, suicide seems to be the next available option. I mean, what’s the meaning of live if HE is no longer there to share it with you? All I can say is, it takes a LOT of courage to commit suicide. Yeah, as an outsider, we would say, ‘ She / he is so silly. To end one’s life over a man / woman is so totally not worth it! ‘.

Trust me. To those whom have sadly succeeded in committing, it was TOTALLY worth it.

That said…JC, be strong and be happy. Time does heals all wounds.

LOVE you lots JC!!