It's Raining Men

No its not. Its more like a morning shower. A subordinate left us yesterday after being with the company for 7 years and she is off to become a employee with her husband running a car mechanics workshop . . . aww . . so sweet. Wished I have a bf who runs his own business and I am working for him. Well actually, it would be a good time to . . . you know . . work together, get to steal fun moments in his office, or when he is hard and needs a quickie….ahem…the possibilities are endless!!…hehehe. For the record, I ve been with this company for less than 2 years.

The weekend is here…YAHOO!! … and I have a small lunch gathering at the SS2 Chow Yang seafood noodle house!. Did I mentioned that I am a food lover? So…back to the seafood noodles, it was first introduced to me by my ex back in 2000. The place to be then was in Segambut. Back then, my ex (CK) kept saying about this delicious seafood noodle place, however we never did managed to go together. For the record, I visited the place myself with my ‘mom’ – BL, after I broke up with CK. Somehow it’s good that I did not go with him. Why? Because if I have, then imagine the trauma of being reminded of him whenever I go to this place!

Talk about traumas, do you find it difficult to go back to places which you have been to with your ex before? I mean, when you are attached to your man, the first thing you want to do is to take him to all your favorite places so that he gets to experience first hand of all the things you have done before … alone….and now…you have HIM to enjoy these things to do with. (Pray hard that he enjoys these places just as much as you did or do!!). Then one day, G forbid, the relationship ended and going back to these places which the 2 of you have been to before is just so PAINFUL!! I know because I ve been in that situation before, especially when the break up is still fresh, you just want to go to these places … sit at THAT particular table, and order THAT particular food or drink, and just pretend that he is sitting on THAT chair, you stare into empty space, you make believe and THEN….tears flow….sigh

Bottom line … NEVER take your current squeeze to ALL of your favorite places to hang out, reserve at least ONE which you can go to when …. err ….. you are single and able to go there minus any memories.

Then again, maybe its just me …….. ouch!!