When you are new to a relationship, do you have any expectations? Or when you are considering a relationship, do you expect anything?
Expectations like
- smile when he tells a joke, even when it is not funny
- be faithful
- do not look at other guys in his presence
- not complaining that you are tired when he wants to go out shopping
- be supportive when he said ‘Let’s go for a picnic this weekend!’
- be his gym buddy
- be his disco buddy
- be his food eating frenzy buddy
- be his FUCK buddy?
- satisfy his hunger, and I do not mean FOOD, when he has a craving
- say ‘Boy that was a wonderful meal honey’, even when it taste funny
- answer his sms or call or mms or paging within 5 seconds
- on time to pick him up from a designated place
- give him a sensual massage when he least expected it
- surprise him with a tight hug and a fat kiss
- fuck him crazy (if you are a top) or blow him crazy (if you are a bottom) or fuck and blow him crazy (if you are a VERSATILE!!)
- attempt bare backing to delight and to hint to him, in a sexual way, that you are ready to take the relationship to the next level
- kiss him good night (after brushing your teeth please)
- kiss him good morning (after brushing your teeth too!!)
- hug him tight to sleep
- if he is used to sleeping on your arm before, never complaint that it is sore NOW
- take care of him when he is not well
- till death do ‘us’ part
Phew! Tall order eh? But seriously, one may not expect everything or is able to fulfill it all down to the last point, but one should make the effort to do so. Then again, would you not want him to do the same to you OR expect the same from him? Thus as the old saying goes, what goes around, comes around.
Another common expectation is the ANNIVERSARY. Do not take this for granted. Anniversaries are so so SO important. Instances like the first time you meet. Now this is the tricky part. Do you take the anniversary ‘date’ as the date you got acquainted, say, via a chat room or a dating site, or do you take the date of your first blind date, which might or might not end up with sex, or do you take the date you two first had sex or do you take the date when both decided to be an item?
Anniversaries are like a marriage date to the straight couples. The day when both decides to be as one. Perhaps with a couple’s ring, ah …. that special day. Forget it and you are screwed! There is also the unwritten rule, that one does not just celebrate it once a year. You see, within the first year, you need to celebrate monthly and gradually move to the annual slot. For example, you celebrate the 1st month anniversary, 2nd month, 3rd month, right up to the 1st year. That said, 1st year anniversary is a HUGE thing. R-E-M-E-M-B-E-R this!!!
Gay relationships are TOUGH! It is not limited to just the anniversary of knowing each other. Let’s not forget the anniversary of your first holiday. The first cum licking. The first ‘meet-the-parents’ session. The first movie. The first I LOVE YOU!! The list goes on. Ah… anniversaries. Such simple yet important dates to remember. Can’t remember it all? Don’t be silly, write it down in your diary or mark it in your mobile. What liao!
Having said all the above, do you remember the time when you were first introduce to this BLOG? Ahh . . . ;-)
Expectations like
- smile when he tells a joke, even when it is not funny
- be faithful
- do not look at other guys in his presence
- not complaining that you are tired when he wants to go out shopping
- be supportive when he said ‘Let’s go for a picnic this weekend!’
- be his gym buddy
- be his disco buddy
- be his food eating frenzy buddy
- be his FUCK buddy?
- satisfy his hunger, and I do not mean FOOD, when he has a craving
- say ‘Boy that was a wonderful meal honey’, even when it taste funny
- answer his sms or call or mms or paging within 5 seconds
- on time to pick him up from a designated place
- give him a sensual massage when he least expected it
- surprise him with a tight hug and a fat kiss
- fuck him crazy (if you are a top) or blow him crazy (if you are a bottom) or fuck and blow him crazy (if you are a VERSATILE!!)
- attempt bare backing to delight and to hint to him, in a sexual way, that you are ready to take the relationship to the next level
- kiss him good night (after brushing your teeth please)
- kiss him good morning (after brushing your teeth too!!)
- hug him tight to sleep
- if he is used to sleeping on your arm before, never complaint that it is sore NOW
- take care of him when he is not well
- till death do ‘us’ part
Phew! Tall order eh? But seriously, one may not expect everything or is able to fulfill it all down to the last point, but one should make the effort to do so. Then again, would you not want him to do the same to you OR expect the same from him? Thus as the old saying goes, what goes around, comes around.
Another common expectation is the ANNIVERSARY. Do not take this for granted. Anniversaries are so so SO important. Instances like the first time you meet. Now this is the tricky part. Do you take the anniversary ‘date’ as the date you got acquainted, say, via a chat room or a dating site, or do you take the date of your first blind date, which might or might not end up with sex, or do you take the date you two first had sex or do you take the date when both decided to be an item?
Anniversaries are like a marriage date to the straight couples. The day when both decides to be as one. Perhaps with a couple’s ring, ah …. that special day. Forget it and you are screwed! There is also the unwritten rule, that one does not just celebrate it once a year. You see, within the first year, you need to celebrate monthly and gradually move to the annual slot. For example, you celebrate the 1st month anniversary, 2nd month, 3rd month, right up to the 1st year. That said, 1st year anniversary is a HUGE thing. R-E-M-E-M-B-E-R this!!!
Gay relationships are TOUGH! It is not limited to just the anniversary of knowing each other. Let’s not forget the anniversary of your first holiday. The first cum licking. The first ‘meet-the-parents’ session. The first movie. The first I LOVE YOU!! The list goes on. Ah… anniversaries. Such simple yet important dates to remember. Can’t remember it all? Don’t be silly, write it down in your diary or mark it in your mobile. What liao!
Having said all the above, do you remember the time when you were first introduce to this BLOG? Ahh . . . ;-)
No comments:
Post a Comment